You are only responsible for your own energy field.

Say it with me: I am only responsible for my own energy field.

Over mothering your clients and taking responsibility for their results disempowers them. When we release false responsibility for our clients it creates more sacred power for them to rise. It’s ALWAYS in service to all.

You are only responsible for your own energy field.

What’s your earliest experience of feeling responsible for others? 

This is a big one – You might want to grab a journal and a pen. 

Let’s explore this together.

How long have you been feeling the need to take responsibility for others? 

What’s your earliest experience or memory of feeling responsible for others?

Was this really yours to take on?

As humans we are meaning making machines. And as children, especially sensitive children, we often tend to take responsibility for the emotions and actions of our caregivers. We feel deeply and in our desire for love, security, acceptance we tend to take things “personally” and take responsibility for what is really NOT ours to take. 

This is the core wound of every “people pleaser” and “over motherer”.

Taking responsibility for others from a young age becomes our “Modus Operandi” in life and business.

When we start to take responsibility for others at such a young age we embed this pattern. It becomes the norm and the “Modus Operandi” which is fine until your 5 year old self is making decisions in your life and business. 

And when for example you start to take responsibility for your clients results beyond your contractual agreement with them, which leaks into you NOT making the decisions you need to make or taking the actions you need to take for fear your clients won’t get the results and it will be all your fault. 

You are responsible for your energy (& results) and your clients are responsible for theirs.

Let’s talk energetics.

The truth is — You are only responsible for your energy field. And your clients are only responsible for theirs. And by taking false responsibility for our clients results and their success, you in fact disempower them. You create an energetic attachment that actually hinders their results rather than helps them. Remember, your role as their coach, teacher, healer…. is to see them in their power and hold them in their highest vision. When you worry about their results they are not free to create because of your imposing attachment. 

You are a SOVEREIGN Woman (Queen!). And so is your client. 

Over mothering your clients actually disempowers them.

Over mothering your clients and taking responsibility for their results disempowers them. The energy of (s)mothering does not hold your clients in their highest, divine, sovereign power and in fact impinges upon their ability to create results. 

Give yourself and your Soul clients this wonderful gift of releasing them from this contractual energetic agreement and allow them to RISE in the way they were always meant to.

Your clients will thank you for reclaiming your sovereignty.

Thank them (and your caregiver) for these lessons and step back into your sovereignty, and realign to your “Queen” frequency which is far more magnetic and powerful for your Soul clients.

Say it with me: I am only responsible for my own energy field. I thank you for the lessons and I release you with love. 

Say it with me: I am only responsible for my own energy field. I thank you for the lessons and I release you with love. 

You’ve got this my Sovereign Queen and your clients will thank you! 

Love,

Niamh x

P.S. The doors to DEEP CLARITY, my private 1-1 offering for the Soul Queens who are deep in the underbelly of self doubt, overwhelm and procrastination and who are desiring that body deep clarity that brings direction, flow and Soul inspired action. To book, go here or click the image below. 

You are only responsible for your own energy field.

Say it with me: I am only responsible for my own energy field.

Over mothering your clients and taking responsibility for their results disempowers them. When we release false responsibility for our clients it creates more sacred power for them to rise. It’s ALWAYS in service to all.

You are only responsible for your own energy field.

What’s your earliest experience of feeling responsible for others?

This is a big one – You might want to grab a journal and a pen. 

Let’s explore this together.

How long have you been feeling the need to take responsibility for others? 

What’s your earliest experience or memory of feeling responsible for others?

Was this really yours to take on?

As humans we are meaning making machines. And as children, especially sensitive children, we often tend to take responsibility for the emotions and actions of our caregivers. We feel deeply and in our desire for love, security, acceptance we tend to take things “personally” and take responsibility for what is really NOT ours to take. 

This is the core wound of every “people pleaser” and “over motherer”.

Taking responsibility for others from a young age becomes our “Modus Operandi” in life and business.

When we start to take responsibility for others at such a young age we embed this pattern. It becomes the norm and the “Modus Operandi” which is fine until your 5 year old self is making decisions in your life and business. 

And when for example you start to take responsibility for your clients results beyond your contractual agreement with them, which leaks into you NOT making the decisions you need to make or taking the actions you need to take for fear your clients won’t get the results and it will be all your fault. 

You are responsible for your energy (& results) and your clients are responsible for theirs.

Let’s talk energetics.

The truth is — You are only responsible for your energy field. And your clients are only responsible for theirs. And by taking false responsibility for our clients results and their success, you in fact disempower them. You create an energetic attachment that actually hinders their results rather than helps them. Remember, your role as their coach, teacher, healer…. is to see them in their power and hold them in their highest vision. When you worry about their results they are not free to create because of your imposing attachment. 

You are a SOVEREIGN Woman (Queen!). And so is your client. 

Over mothering your clients actually disempowers them.

Over mothering your clients and taking responsibility for their results disempowers them. The energy of (s)mothering does not hold your clients in their highest, divine, sovereign power and in fact impinges upon their ability to create results. 

Give yourself and your Soul clients this wonderful gift of releasing them from this contractual energetic agreement and allow them to RISE in the way they were always meant to.

Your clients will thank you for reclaiming your sovereignty.

Thank them (and your caregiver) for these lessons and step back into your sovereignty, and realign to your “Queen” frequency which is far more magnetic and powerful for your Soul clients.

Say it with me: I am only responsible for my own energy field. I thank you for the lessons and I release you with love. 

Say it with me: I am only responsible for my own energy field. I thank you for the lessons and I release you with love. 

You’ve got this my Sovereign Queen and your clients will thank you! 

Love,

Niamh x

P.S. The doors to DEEP CLARITY, my private 1-1 offering for the Soul Queens who are deep in the underbelly of self doubt, overwhelm and procrastination and who are desiring that body deep clarity that brings direction, flow and Soul inspired action.

To book, go here or click the image below.

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